Getting ready for Easter services, and my first church service in over two months because I'm a lazy piece of poo, was mind boggling. No longer bound by my "safe" outfits, I pulled out a pair of pants that hasn't seen light in years. Fit like a glove. And not the OJ Simpson glove that didn't fit because it had shrunk from the blood.... Like the original meaning - I was no longer pouring myself into them! Then I pulled out a shirt that I've never been able to get rid of, even though I haven't worn it since I left the Netherlands 7 years ago. I couldn't believe it. I was fabulous!
Even though I did the "girl thing" and changed outfits three times to find a better one (turns out it was too cold for that original outfit) I still kept thinking about how good it felt. Sometimes what motivates me is positive thinking. I know I look better and feel better than I did when I started 12 weeks ago. However, that's not where this message is going...
Needing the help of others refers to the comment that my friend Holly said to me, "You look GREAT!" Thank Holly! Sometimes it's the recognition from friends and family that keep me going. We're all human. We love it when people notice the good in us - the power of positive reinforcement!
Asking for help is no weakness. It might be what someone needs. Don't be afraid of being that voice for someone. I know Holly's comment will keep me going through the week. Who will you help? :o)
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| No picture of the awesome outfit, but here's my cute kid! |
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